Thrive your way
Do you feel like a square peg... a fish out of water. Like you've been marching to the beat of a different drum - in classrooms, workplaces, friendships, relationships, even family spaces. While others seem to glide along, you’re exhausted from trying to keep time with everyone else?
Well here’s the thing:
You’re not the problem. The fit is.
Welcome to a therapy space that gets neurodiversity - not as a buzzword, but as a lived reality.
A space where neurodivergent experiences are validated and understood.
Where, together, we explore ways to:​​​
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Tune in more deeply to your own needs and relationships
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Feel safe enough to drop the mask and live more authentically
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Support your nervous system and find calm in everyday life
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Build emotional safety within yourself and in your connections with others​​
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Lean into your rhythms
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Set boundaries without guilt
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Because marching to the beat of a different drum isn’t a flaw…
It might just be your greatest asset - once you learn how to play it your way.
Whether you're a teenager, adult, couple or a family, we move at a pace that feels safe for you as we work through hurts and experiences. Your story matters here and it is my privilege to hold space for it.
Autism
Affirming
Teenagers
Try as you might - organising yourself, completing work, navigating friendships, managing expectations, coping with peer pressure or loneliness - the challenges can feel endless and overwhelming. You find ways to cope, but sometimes the strategies you’re using end up creating even more distress.
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Feeling distressed in an environment that doesn’t allow you to flourish does not mean there’s anything wrong with you.
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Empowerment comes from valuing and embracing who you are, so our work won’t focus on deficits. You won’t be judged, criticised, or told what to do. Instead, I’ll support you to understand and manage painful emotions, and to make sense of what may be causing them.
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Together, we’ll step back and look at the bigger picture - exploring what is, and isn’t, within your control, and how others might support you. We’ll develop meaningful goals, build on your strengths, and sharpen the tools you need to succeed.
Couples
​Understanding differences in communication styles, sensory needs, and emotional regulation, and making space for the emotional impact of misunderstandings, conflict, and disconnection, helps foster compassion for each other’s challenges and deepen appreciation of each other’s strengths.
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It’s natural for partners who experience the world differently to face extra challenges at times.
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Working together, we’ll develop practical tools for navigating differences constructively, resolving conflict, and strengthening connection. The goal isn’t to erase your differences, but to understand and work with them, so your relationship can feel more supportive, balanced, and fulfilling for you both.
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Families
Family therapy offers a supportive space to build shared understanding, reduce conflict, and find ways of relating that work better for everyone. Rather than focusing on one person as “the problem”, therapy looks at patterns within the family and how these can shift.
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When one person in a family is neurodivergent, everyone is impacted.
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I work from a neurodiversity-affirming perspective, recognising neurodivergence as a natural variation in how people experience the world. Sessions are tailored to each family and may include parents, children, adolescents, adult family members, or partners.
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Family therapy can be helpful when relationships feel strained, communication breaks down, or family members are feeling exhausted or stuck. The aim is greater understanding, clearer communication, and relationships that feel safer and more sustainable.
Neil Burton
I am a Psychologist based in Onehunga, Auckland, and over the past 30 years I’ve had the privilege of working with people of all ages across Education, Mental Health, Disability, and Private Practice settings. This experience has given me a deep appreciation for the many different ways people learn, grow, and thrive.
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For the past 18 years, I’ve specialised in working with neurodivergent people and their loved ones. While each person’s individuality is valued and honoured - and every therapeutic relationship is unique - I bring a thorough understanding of both the challenges and strengths that commonly shape neurodivergent experiences.
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Our work is collaborative and tailored to the individual needs, strengths, and goals of each person.
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I draw on an integrative approach to therapy, blending Narrative Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), and Internal Family Systems (IFS).
